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i know this isn't a real question but why did you start this blog??
I just really like giving advice. I’ve gone through a lot of things too and I have a very rational mind so I usually come up with good solutions.
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Anonymous Asked:
What do you think of a ninth grade girl dating an eighth grade boy? Is it weird since the boy is usually older ?
I think it’s fine (:
The age difference here isn’t much. If anyone thinks it’s weird, flick them off because they should be happy for you , not put you down.
I at least read it first.
Here’s my reply.
I’d slap her. Not out of anger but a slap back to reality. That’s just me though and probably not the most legitimate piece of advice. Legit Advice~ I’m not sure how old you guys are but break ups are really very difficult to cope with for some people, especially the between the ages of 12-18. Her anger is most likely because she’s feeling betrayed by you. To her it might look like this. “My friend isn’t supporting my decision. Why can’t she understand I like him? Both of them are always trying to get rid of me. Something is probably going on between them. I can’t believe she’d do that.” I’m not saying any of that is true, it just might look that way to her. This is how I’d approach this.
1. Help her cut all ties with him. Throw away anything that belonged to him or that he gave to her, notes, bears, trinkets, etc.
2. Don’t let him talk to her. At all. Nada. Zip. It’ll be easier for her to get over him if he doesn’t talk to her.
3. Let the two talk one final time. He needs to lay down the law and make her understand they are not going to happen. He needs to be as blunt as possible. NOT GOING TO HAPPEN.
4. She’s going to feel terrible after this so you should probably console her. You need to let her know that a group of good friends will always be better than a boy. There are countless other people she’ll have to date before she meets that special someone. Let her know you’re there for her but tell her you’d appreciate it if she’d stop talking behind your back.
5. Force her to go out as much as possible. Check out cute boys with her, maybe one will spark her interest. Set up a girls night. Anything that will show her she has support.
6. If there’s no improvement or she starts cutting, drinking, abusing drugs, etc, contact a parent IMMEDIATELY. Don’t wait. All of these could very easily lead to suicide. She might get super angry, but hey, angry is better than dead in my book. Seriously, I’d hate for you to lose a friend. If you need follow up advice, feel free.
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theaoidoragon Asked:
thanks, I'll try my best. It's just tough sometimes... I know I'll get through it somehow :|
You will, trust me. (: I’ve been through break ups and I understand they’re hard but you just have to pull yourself together. This may be silly but I always think about Sailor Moon. She goes through loads of shit but she always pulls through no matter how much she’s hurting. Things get better. Just try and flirt with other guys and please please please do not make the sad mistake of listening to sad music and watching a bunch of romance movies. No bueno.